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Wow, posting from the hospital! How cool is that?! I hope right now you\'re in la-la land... you\'ll probably be posting tonight to tell us how it went!---

YAY! You are going to do so great!  YOu are going to have the body to match your beautiful face! keep your chin up and know that we are all thinking about you and looking forward to your out of surgery post!  
Great big SOFT HUGS
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Good luck to you!---

>> Yes, I\'m posting from the hospital..couldn\'t do without my girls.  I\'m in
>> the pre-op room with an IV stuck in my hand...only water in it though for
>> now. When\'s the good stuff coming??   I\'m nervous and was crying but
>> posting is making me feel better.  Thank you all for your well wishes from
>> my other post.  Sorry I didn\'t respond..busy gettin stuff ready last night.
>> Grr, this IV is annoying, hurtin\' my hand.  I go in to surgery at 8:30am
>> and get done around 4:30pm.  Thank you everyone for all your support and
>> love, it has meant so much to me.    See ya on the other side!  Love you
>> all!

I just read your post but you\'re already in surgery right at this moment. Hope you feel ok when you get home and I wish you well!---

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